What do you think about when you think of sex? According to magazines and media, it’s ‘oh so satisfying’, an electrifying hurricane raining bliss.
But statistically speaking, you’re more likely to think ‘oh, that unsatisfying activity that’s sometimes sweaty’. A 2015 survey in Singapore that polled 800 women found that 7 in 10 women in Singapore are not satisfied with their sex lives.
However, it doesn’t have to be that way. With an open mind and a whole host of sex toys, things can really spice up — like dropping-chili-padi-into-porridge spice up.
Clitorial Vibrators
Clitorial vibrators are pretty straightforward, they stimulate the clitoris and vulva. It’s usually used externally where you rest it on your vulva. Some of them are pointed so you can even pinpoint your clitoris for a series of pleasure-inducing mini-quakes.
G-Spot Vibrators
With a curved tip meant to reach your ever elusive G-Spot, these vibrators are used internally. Allow it to penetrate and get right where it needs to be.
Rabbit
If the Clitorial Vibrator and G-Spot Vibrator had a child, the Rabbit would be it. The rabbit hops onto both the clitoris and the G-spot, usually at the same time. It sounds like a match made in heaven but because the stimulation points of the rabbit are at a fixed distance apart, be sure to find one that fits your body.
Egg/Bullet
For the discreet, these sleek mini vibrators are great. They are meant to be used externally on the clitoris but you can also choose to slip them in if you want to be stimulated from within.
Finger Vibrators
To be worn on the fingertips, these turn your fingers into vibrators giving you the best between woman and machine.
Wand Vibrators
They look like microphones and they’ll have you singing. Traditionally used as massagers, wand vibrators stimulate the clitoris and vulva. With a detachable head, you can even vary the attachments for different sensations.
Wearable Vibrators
These vibrators are little pleasure ninjas that you can bring out with you. They are hands-free and can be worn inside panties or fit inside the labia.
Dildos
As straightforward as it gets, dildos are built for penetration. It’s usually shaped like a penis but newer dildo designs can get pretty creative too. Many dildos now also vibrate if you want to take things up a notch.
Double Dildos
The double-lightsaber of dildos. Either end of the dildo works and some double dildos even has different sensations on each end.
As you can see, all you need is a willingness to experiment and there already is quite an array of options to explore. So whenever you’d like to chili-padi up your sex life, the sex toy industry has got you covered.